What to Wear for Your Boudoir Session (Even If You’re Nervous)
One of the first questions almost every client asks after booking a boudoir session is, “What do I wear?”
If you’re feeling unsure, overwhelmed, or nervous about choosing outfits—you’re not alone. The good news? Boudoir styling doesn’t have to be complicated, and there’s no single “right” look.
At Candy Coated Moments, the goal is simple: wear what makes you feel confident, comfortable, and beautiful.
Lingerie Is Optional—Confidence Is Not
Let’s clear this up right away: lingerie is never required for a boudoir session. While many clients love traditional lingerie sets, others prefer bodysuits, oversized sweaters, button-down shirts, robes, or even cozy knits.
If it makes you feel good, it will photograph beautifully.
Boudoir is about you, not about fitting into a certain look or standard.
Start With What You Already Love
If you’re unsure where to begin, start by looking at pieces you already own and feel good wearing. Ask yourself:
Do I feel confident in this?
Does it fit comfortably?
Would I feel okay being photographed in it?
If the answer is yes, it’s a great option.
Flattering Boudoir Outfit Ideas
Here are some client-favorite choices that photograph beautifully:
Lingerie sets or bodysuits – Classic, flattering, and timeless
Oversized sweaters or cardigans – Cozy, soft, and romantic
Button-down shirts – Playful, confident, and effortless
Robes or kimonos – Great for layering and movement
Off-the-shoulder tops – Subtle and elegant
Bare skin + sheets – Minimal, tasteful, and intimate
Layers are especially helpful because they allow variety without changing outfits completely.
Choose Colors That Photograph Well
Neutral and rich tones tend to photograph best. Think:
Black
Deep reds or burgundy
Soft blush or nude
Emerald, plum, or chocolate brown
White or cream (great for soft, airy looks)
Avoid busy patterns or large logos, as they can distract from you.
Bring Options—We’ll Decide Together
You don’t need to narrow it down perfectly before your session. I always recommend bringing multiple outfit options. Once you arrive, we’ll choose what works best for your body, the lighting, and the overall vibe you want.
I’ll also help with:
Adjusting straps and fits
Styling layers
Making sure everything looks natural and flattering
You are never left to figure this out alone.
What About Shoes & Accessories?
Heels are optional but can add confidence and posture. Simple accessories like delicate jewelry, stockings, or thigh-highs can elevate a look without overpowering it.
Less is usually more.
The Most Important Rule: Be Yourself
The best boudoir images happen when you feel comfortable and confident—not when you’re forcing yourself into something that doesn’t feel like you.
If you’re nervous, that’s okay. If you want to keep it simple, that’s okay. If you want to go bold, that’s okay too.
There is no wrong way to show up.
Final Thoughts
Your boudoir session at Candy Coated Moments is about celebrating you, exactly as you are. The right outfit is the one that makes you feel confident the moment you put it on.
And if you’re still unsure? That’s what I’m here for.
✨ Confidence looks good on you—no matter what you wear.